The free co-parenting app

Communicate clearly.
Co-parent
calmly.

A private, secure messaging space built for co-parents who want to focus on their children.

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One tap to calm the tone

Everything you need, nothing you don't

CalmParents strips away the noise so you can focus on thoughtful, child-centred communication.

Private & Secure

Your conversations are strictly between you and your co-parent. No ads, no feeds, and we never sell your data.

Calm Rewrite

Not sure how a message will land? One tap rewrites it in a calmer, clearer tone. You can always undo it.

Distraction-Free

No group chats, no noise, no distractions. Just a clean space focused entirely on your co-parenting communication.

Everything in one calm place

Topics, records and keepsakes, organised so you can both find what you need, when you need it.

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CalmParents on a phone: the subjects list, with threads for school pick-ups, medication, holidays and costs

Organised by topic

Every topic in its own thread

School, health, money, holidays. Each conversation has its own home, so a pick-up question never gets buried under a birthday plan.

  • Tag and filter subjects
  • Search every message
  • Works on any phone or computer
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A conversation about the school pick-up rota, with timestamps, read receipts and an Export Conversation button

A clear record

A record you can rely on

Every message is timestamped, and you can see exactly when it was read. Export any conversation to PDF whenever you need a copy.

  • Timestamps on every message
  • Read receipts on both sides
  • Export a conversation to PDF
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Keepsakes on a phone: family photos and school documents shared between co-parents

Keepsakes

Keepsakes in one safe place

School letters, medical documents and family photos. Shared with your co-parent, stored privately and easy to find. Plus keeps them forever.

  • Photos, videos and documents
  • Private to you and your co-parent
  • Save straight from a message

Up and running in minutes

01

Create your account

Sign up in seconds with your email address.

02

Invite your co-parent

Generate a private invite link and share it with one click.

03

Start communicating

Message each other in a calm, focused, private space.

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