The OurFamilyWizard Alternative That Stays Free
OurFamilyWizard is a paid subscription for each parent. If you mainly need calm, private messaging and a clear record, CalmParents gives you that for free, for both of you.
No card needed, ever
OurFamilyWizard alternatives: why parents switch
OurFamilyWizard plans range from $110 to $299.88 a year, and each parent needs their own subscription. For two parents, that cost is doubled.
OurFamilyWizard has a lot of tools. But if what you use most is messaging, CalmParents keeps that free for both parents, with no trial period and no card.
What you get free on CalmParents
Unlimited private messaging
Message your co-parent as often as you need, organised into subjects like school, holidays or health.
Read receipts with timestamps
See when each message was sent and when it was first read, on the free plan.
Messages can't be deleted
Once sent, messages can’t be edited or deleted by either parent, so your record stays complete.
Photo and file sharing
Share photos, videos and documents. Files stay available for 14 days on the free plan.
PDF export
Download a conversation as a PDF with timestamps and read times. The free plan includes 1 PDF export a month.
Phone and computer
Use it in your browser on any device, or add it to your home screen like an app.
See CalmParents in action
Real conversations, organised by topic, on whatever device you have to hand.
Demo accounts and conversations. No real family data.
CalmParents vs OurFamilyWizard: the key differences
An honest look at what each offers. OurFamilyWizard has more tools, like calls, scheduling requests and expenses. CalmParents keeps messaging free.
| Feature |  CalmParents |  OurFamilyWizard |
|---|---|---|
| Free plan | ||
| Price | £0, or Plus at £8.00/mo | $110 to $299.88/yr |
| Each parent pays | No, free for both | Yes |
| Secure messaging | ||
| First-read timestamps | Free | Essentials plan and up |
| Photo & file storage | 250 MB free, 10 GB on Plus | 1 GB to unlimited |
| PDF records | 1/mo free, unlimited on Plus | Unlimited on Essentials and up |
| Audio & video calls | Receive-only to unlimited | |
| Schedule change requests | Essentials plan and up | |
| Expense tracking | Essentials plan and up |
Competitor prices are from each company's own website (US pricing, USD), checked on 19 October 2026. Prices and features can change, so check their site for the latest.
Switching takes minutes
- 01
Create your free account
Sign up with your email or Google. No card, no trial period.
- 02
Invite your co-parent
Send them a private invite link or code. They join for free too.
- 03
Start messaging
Talk about what matters in a calm, focused space that keeps a clear record.
Private by design
Your conversations are between you and your co-parent.
No ads, ever
We never sell your data or show you adverts, and there’s no algorithm deciding what you see.
Protected and stored securely
Your messages and files are encrypted in transit and at rest, and held by established providers (Google Cloud and Cloudflare).
Clear about AI
Optional Calm Assist uses an AI provider to suggest calmer wording. Our privacy policy explains exactly what’s shared.
Has a court told you which app to use?
If a court has ordered you to use a specific co-parenting app, please check with your solicitor before switching to CalmParents.
Switching from OurFamilyWizard: your questions
How much does OurFamilyWizard cost?
OurFamilyWizard plans range from $110 to $299.88 a year, and each parent needs their own subscription. There’s no free trial, but its pricing page offers a full refund within 30 days. A fee waiver program offers free or discounted subscriptions to parents in financial need.
Is CalmParents really free?
Yes. The free plan isn’t a trial. There’s no time limit and no card needed. Messaging, read receipts and photo and file sharing are all included. Plus is an optional upgrade for extras.
Does my co-parent need to pay?
No. Your co-parent can join and use CalmParents for free, whichever plan you choose.
Can I keep my OurFamilyWizard message history?
Before you switch, download your records from OurFamilyWizard so you have a copy of your history. Your new conversations on CalmParents start fresh and are kept as a clear record from day one.
What doesn’t CalmParents do?
CalmParents focuses on messaging and sharing photos and files. It doesn’t have calls, a shared calendar or expense tracking, so if you rely on those, another app may suit you better.
Can I use CalmParents as a record for court?
Messages can’t be edited or deleted, and you can export any conversation as a PDF showing each message, when it was sent, when it was read, and both parents’ verified email addresses. Whether it’s accepted as evidence is up to the court, so check with your solicitor.
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